Transforming Families, One Workshop at a Time

Our Story

Founded in 2021 with a simple yet profound question—"If family is the most important thing to all of us, why aren't we acting like it?"—Total Family Management (TFM) has grown into a transformative force for families across the U.S. Our mission is clear: to show up and help families thrive. With our proprietary RELATE software and a diverse team of dedicated coaches, we're redefining what it means to invest in family well-being. As we look to the future, we're excited about the endless possibilities to strengthen family bonds and we invite you to be a part of this groundbreaking journey.


Purpose: "To show up and help families."

Mission: "A future where family coaching becomes a regular part of maintaining healthy, strong, and connected families."



How are we different?

At TFM, we're not just another family counseling service; we're a proactive family coaching platform designed to strengthen the core of what makes a family unique. Here's how we stand apart:

  • RELATE Software: Our proprietary platform serves as your family's digital dashboard, allowing you to track progress, schedule workshops, and document your family's vision and legacy. We believe that seeing your progress is key to achieving your goals, whether they're physical, professional, or familial.
  • Democratization of Family Dynamics: We believe that caring about your family's vision and legacy shouldn't be a luxury. Whether it's the wealth firm or the client footing the bill, we're committed to making family dynamics support accessible to everyone, not just the ultra-wealthy.
  • Virtual Convenience: In today's busy world, finding time for family can be a challenge. Our virtual workshops eliminate the need for costly and time-consuming retreats, making it easier for your family to connect, no matter where you are.
  • Customized Workshops: Your family is unique, and our workshops reflect that. Whether you're a blended family, a traditional family, or even a group of close friends, our 8 foundational workshops are tailored to meet your specific needs and dynamics.
  • Objective Coaching Team: Our coaches come from diverse professional backgrounds and are solely focused on helping your family succeed, however you define success. There are no ulterior motives or sales goals, just genuine support.
  • 100% Satisfaction Guarantee: We stand behind our work wholeheartedly. That's why we offer a no-questions-asked refund if you're not satisfied after three workshops. Think of us as the LL Bean of Family Dynamics—quality and customer satisfaction are our top priorities.